Sunday, January 19, 2014

A trade off


My husband loves Carolina athletics. In the four years we were in college, I don't think we missed a single home football game. We went to every basketball game that we could. We camped out a couple of times and did the almost-camping-out thing for most basketball games. Once we graduated, we went to several games a year. Eventually, John joined the Ram's club and became eligible to buy season football tickets. He's spent many Saturdays in Kenan stadium cheering on our football team. Usually, one of our older boys went with him. As they moved away to college, their available football time was greatly reduced. Abbey and Elijah would take a Saturday and spend it with their Dad.

This year Elijah went to the MTSU game




Abbey went to the ECU game.




John, Jr went to the game against Miami and Daniel went to the Duke game(that was supposed to be mine, but, with his swimming schedule, he couldn't make any other game,  being the loving Mom I am,  I let him go).

I went to the ODU game. I enjoy the tailgating, half-time show and people watching much more than the game itself. I love being in Chapel Hill with John, remembering when how and when we first met and realized we were meant to be together for life. It's truly a special place for us!


Seeing and hearing the band play "Hark the Sound" still gives me goose bumps.


I love the excitement as the team burst onto the field.


This game was a bit unusual, the score was so lopsided that the coaches agreed to end it early. That was fine with me.



But…as much as John loves Carolina athletics, he loves this more…


being at the beach with our family. Growing up John's family had a place at the beach. The ocean has always been his "happy place". His parents had to sell when his Dad had a stroke, leaving John longing for a place at the beach to call his own.

For the past two years, we've been renting a wonderful house on Holden Beach. This summer for some unknown reason, I suggested we check into buying a place at the beach for our family. Neither of us really thought that we'd be able to pull it off, we were just dreaming. John had a positive conversation with a realtor and we looked at the outside of some homes in the area. 

After we had been home for a month or so, the pursuit for a place had cooled off a bit. I was browsing through some homes on the internet when this one popped up.


It caught my eye, because it had a pool. I'd longed for a pool. I like the beach, but I'm not a big fan of sand and sea creatures, and pools have neither of those things!


It also had 5 bedrooms and two living areas. It wasn't on the ocean, but did have a nice view of the waterway.



All of those things were things we had really wanted in a vacation home, and best of all…it was within our price range. I went to show it to John, as he was laying on the couch. He looked at me and said, "I had given up on that idea, what are you doing?" We both agreed it was interesting. The next day I was looking at it further and the chat blurb popped up. I thought, "Why not?" So, I asked about the house. The next day a realtor called; from then on things just ran along. We prayed for God to give us a roadblock, but none appeared. With every step in the process, we'd say if this doesn't work out, then we'll know it's not supposed to be. Everything worked like clock work. John agreed that he'd gladly forgo the Ram's Club and football tickets to help finance the house. A trade off he gladly makes.

At inspection we discovered these beside the waterfall in back:


Beatle rocks!!!

The Beatles' music has always been a huge part of our family, via John's influence. That sealed the deal!! (not really, but it made for great conversation).

So now we are the owners of a home in Holden Beach, Doz-A-Way by name.  We want to rent it to friends and family to help with the expenses. We've chosen to do that ourselves and not go through a realty company. That way we have control over who uses our home. This house, as everything we have, belongs to the Lord! We are grateful for the opportunity to use it to help others have a beach vacation for less money than they would have to pay a realty company.

I've enjoyed decorating and I must say I enjoy going there. I can't wait to lounge by the pool.  Our kids are extremely excited. We pray that our family and many others will create wonderful memories at the Doz-A-Way house in Holden Beach!!

(You can leave me a comment if you'd like info on renting)

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Sunday, January 12, 2014

Christmas Morning

Believe it or not, our Chinese alarm clock was late going off Christmas morning, (too much night life on Christmas Eve, I guess). She was late getting her big brothers up, so our morning was late getting started. John, Jr, and Abbey and Elijah fixed cinnamon rolls for everyone. (Daniel joined them later).  They brought the breakfast to our room and we all ate. Then, down to the living room for presents, we all scurried.

Waiting patiently….



Trying to catch a few winks before…


Ready to catch it all on video…


Evie Claire's first Christmas…


Greg's 2nd Christmas with us


When the wrapping paper settled, and believe me there was no shortage of such, there wasn't much time to enjoy the gifts, we had to skedaddle off to Nana and Grandaddy's house.

Once there Evie met a lot of her family for the first time.

Aunt Anna

Great Grandaddy and Great Nana




Great Uncle Tom, Great Aunt Betty and cousin Jordan


and cousin Layne, who thought Evie needed a little pat.



Proud Mimi and Papa

First Christmas as a family of 3
 
My two big girls, now Mommies…





Layne thinking, "What can I get into now???"


The two John's…



 Needless to say, we don't get everyone together often, so we seized the moment and took some pictures.

My Mom and Dad's grandchildren and great grandchildren.


Our family…

I love them all so!!
After discarding mounds of  wrapping paper, making our bellies full, declaring basketball champions and catching up with everyone, it was time to say goodbye and journey back to our home.

When we got home, Anna, Jamie and Layne finally made it to our house to open yet even more presents.

What a Christmas it was! It was a time to celebrate our family and build more bonds and make memories. It came too quickly and went much, much too quickly!

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Thursday, January 9, 2014

She makes me smile!


Short story about a day brightener…

While doing reading with Abbey, we were working on the sounds that  "ear" can make. She was with me taking it all in. I then explained about "tear" as in ripping something up  and "tear" as crying. I explained that they were spelled the same, but were pronounced completely different, and that you have to use context clues to know which word is correct.

Without missing a beat and with utmost seriousness, Abbey looked at me with a shocked face and said, "You just rocked my world!" 

No, no, my little girl, it is you that rock my world every single day!!




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Monday, January 6, 2014

Christmas Eve 2013


When Evie Claire was born, we only got to see her for a day before we had to leave and come back home. John and I were so excited that she and her parents would be spending Christmas with us this year. We were so looking forward to getting some time to love on her.

Beth and Greg had a dickens of a time getting here. It took them about 7 hours to make a trip that usually takes 4 hours. The traffic was horrid! But, they finally got here. I was cooking in the kitchen and looked up to see Bella jumping on the kitchen door, wanting to be let in. I petted her and then ran out to see the baby, family. While I greeted Beth, Greg and, of course, Evie Claire, Bella ran laps all around our cup-de-sac. She was glad to be back in ole NC!

Shortly after they got here, Beth and Greg gave Evie her first bath at Mimi and Papa's house.
She looks like she's saying, "What in the world are you doing to me?"

We all worked and worked to get a coo or gurgle out of her.






Gave lots and lots of kisses.



(Bella got her cuddles too)








Mimi and Papa even got to babysit one night, while the parents went out to eat and see a movie. We tried to help the new parents get some much needed sleep by taking care of Miss Evie, (a tough job, I know, but someone had to do it).






She's such a beautiful baby. We are totally in love with her.




Christmas Evie in her Santa suit.

Christmas Eve was a little different from past years. We went to church earlier in the day, but for some reason, we were running behind schedule. We still gathered and read the Christmas story from the Bible.


sang some carols,


gave family gifts



and did the annual pig out.


For some reason this year the horseradish wasn't as hot as in previous years. The annual challenges lacked some of the "punch" of years past.



No singed nostrils and tear-filled eyes. No one's suffering to laugh at…aww shucks!


After we were stuffed and the little ones were asleep. Beth and I watched a "chick-flick" and the boys played cards. If you happened to be our neighbors and couldn't sleep for the loud, exuberant yells, then I apologize. If the decibel level was proportionate to the enjoyment, then they must have had a blast!

Christmas Eve 2013 was wonderful, because of these folks were here:






It was great! If Anna, Jamie and Layne had been here, it would have been perfect!
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